Skip to main content

The Beginning of Everything

17th April 2018




So after a long (longer than I expected) break from my blog - I am back, with a brand new site to go with it. The past 6 months have been intense, the final months of my honours year at university really put me through my paces and really everything else became secondary BUT that is me done, finished forever and ever. Cant quite believe that after years and years of hard work, social Siberia and sacrifices I have an honours degree - still pinch myself to be honest. 

This being said, with this chapter (finally) coming to an end, it has made me think ''What comes next?'' - It is a big chapter to be closing, the vast majority of my 20's were spent writing essays, sitting exams and studying. It made think, is everyone as apprehensive as me about what the future is going to look like?! - will all those years of hard work, pay off?!.

This really is the beginning of everything....

The future is already looking a lot brighter, I have succeeded in achieving a goal that probably 18 months ago, I never thought I would reach. I am moving into my own house in the summer. I will be celebrating my 30th in Marbella with the best people in the world and a family holiday in Turkey also coming up - you know what, as apprehensive as I may be, I believe there are far better things ahead than anything we leave behind (thank you C.S Lewis for that epic piece of advice). 

It did get me thinking though, why do we as people tend to want to turn back when we are faced with the unknown - is it the comfort of the status quo that pulls us back to old familiar ground, even when we know we want more, we need more and we deserve more.  Why do we sell ourselves short? Why are we so happy to settle for mediocrity? - I refuse to have worked as hard as I have, not to at least try and live the life I want for me, on my own terms. 

'' I would rather choke on greatness, than nibble on mediocrity'' 

 The steps I take next, I believe will define the rest of my life - the person I choose to be and the life I choose to live will shape everything.  I hope to be courageous in my choices and remain true to who and what are important to me.  That is not always an easy thing to do, but all we can do is try. 

I know I am not the only one stepping from the known to the unknown, but if you are taking that chance, all I can say is run straight at the chance for change. We are not on this planet very long (regardless of what anyone says, time is up in a heartbeat) we owe it to ourselves and to everyone who did not get the chance to chase their dreams, to live the best life we can,  regardless of heartbreak or sadness. One roll at the dice my friends, roll it on your terms and I truly hope you get sixes. 

Until next time,
Lettie xo 

Comments

  1. Well what an exciting junction you are at! The word is your oyster. Hats off to you for getting your degree, its a hard slog! Good luck!

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Coeliac and Me

Hi Everyone! I hope you are all well this Sunday morning and ready for whatever the coming week brings. For my next blog I thought I would talk more on a personal level; Coeliac and me, this is about my journey adapting to this new way of life.  For anyone who also has Coeliac disease, Gluten intolerance or may be suspicious that they have it, keep reading :) More than an 'Allergy' This really bugs me, a lot of people assume that Coeliac Disease, is nothing more than an allergy to gluten, I can assure you my friends, it is much much MUCH more than that. Coeliac Disease is in fact an autoimmune condition, this is the part of your body that protects and fights infection.  The 'fun' part is where your body mistakenly attacks healthy tissues in your body; your body thinks gluten (ingredients found in it) is a threat to your body and essentially the alert systems go into overdrive. Coeliac Disease comes with a lot of symptoms that a lot of people just brus...

Even the children get older, and I am getting older, too.

4th June 2018 This one, is a strange one for me to write about. I am just a few days away from turning 30 years old. Growing up, I always thought 30 was so old and by the time I had reached 30, I would have my life completely worked out, I would be exactly were I wanted  to be in life - that just isn't how things have worked out. 30 years, 360 months or 15768000 minutes of life. Its funny how in the time that has passed, it really feels like no time has passed at all, its a cliche but its gone in the blink of an eye, all that time. I always had an irrational fear of leaving my 20's behind - but why? My 20's taught me some tough lessons that the people you love most in the world will let you down and you will let down the people you love the most, it taught me humility, heartbreak, profound sadness and for the vast majority of 'the best years of my life' I felt entirely uncomfortable in my own skin, like I was just out of step. So why did I have this paralysi...